Sab kuch niyam anusar hi ho pata hai…aur niyam theek se pata nahi hai…isliye sab kuch aaraam se dekhiye, samajiye. Easier said than done but like Kabir said, you can water & care for a plant but you will have to wait a long time for it to bear fruit. So don’t rush & don’t get so into anything…as to forget life.